He is the perfect mixture of charm and endearment, with a lot of presence of mind. This sweetness comes from the element of water. Pluto rules the underworld, therefore he is secretive, mischievous and sneaky, something that adds to how attractive the man is.
This simply means that you ought to be the honest, true and grounded version of him. Nothing will attract him more than absolute genuineness does.
Therefore do not put out something that is not you. He loves to be authentic, loves to be nonshowy and is very judgemental since he is ruled by the planets, Mars and Pluto. He expects you to be the same. And since water is his element you will find that he is great coping mechanism that he will actually embrace and have fun at the wackiness that you have.
He definitely loves that, take it from me. This is something he is going to take notice, water and earth signs attract each other pretty much. You do not have to be an earth sign but being earthy, that is definitely in your hand. Some point later, when you realize this attracts him, you are also going to enjoy yourself.
Being earthy is like being so genuine about you, and unleashing the very fun and the stupid niches in yourself. The Scorpio man is a homely man, he is going to love it indoors. Fancy restaurants, Jazzy clubs, flamboyant pubs are not his catch, he may do them and master them, but they are not his things. Tell him how you feel about his frivolous behavior. Relationship is about love, respect, understanding and unity, not about control, lies and deceit. These men are predictable, they never change their games, is always the same pattern.
This can be boring to some women. While some find it mysterious, keeps them engrossed and longing for more. The unevolved Scorpio is aggressive, impatient, insecure, jealous, and are risk takers. He is the type that falls in love with you in January, and wants to get married in march.
He is fun, lively, but will easily end things with you the moment he finds you less interesting, and waggish. Whereas the evolved Scorpio is more in control of his feelings. This is also part of his game to lure you in, and day dream about some future that may never come true. He is persistent, selfish, and all he can think about at that moment is satisfying his own needs. Presumably he is making unrealistic promises to 5 different women at the same thing.
Not all Scorpios are bad, there are some good ones. He is human, so he has his strengths, and weaknesses. He can be affectionate, patient, protective, loyal, and a great provider. Sometimes, the good surpasses the bad. If you truly love him, you should be able to accept him totally and help him work on his flaws.
So, read about Natal Chart , and see what each planet represents. How to keep a Gemini man interested. Related Story. This is so on point. Bcs the evolve scorpio is so me. Thanks for this masterpiece. And to the girl who's been holding out on the Scorpio man for a couple months because he won't commit, well that's just the norm for him and if you want him you'll have to find away around it.
Absolutely the Scorpio man will like a girl who can be vulnerable and sweet, he may even sense that your 'nervous'ness is just a representation of how deeply you care about him, but you have to step up and show him that you will not always wilt like a bad flower every time he pulls away like maybe NOT telling him you're done and just plain be done with him, try dating someone else too.
Keep in mind that they tend to be very sensual people, and so two months with not but a kiss and some fondling will not peak his interests. We are friends and yes i have this gut feeling that he likes me back I know for fact that he is extremely shy. What I don't get is why one day he talks to me and he is trying to find out everything about me and he cares too much if I am ok , and the next day he will not even say hello - he is trying to completely ignore me!!! Friends do not behave like that RE: confused by: Anonymous Your Scorpio friend is unsure about your intentions with him.
I'm a scorpio. And most of us have an "All or Nothing" attitude. So unless he's for sure you want more than a fling or a friendship, he's going to keep backing away. My best advice, show him you are for real about him. It won't take much, trust me, we can read intentions and motives in people like a sixth sense. But you need to always be real and never let your mood affect the way you interact with him. A change in interaction will keep making him second guess.
Therfore creating a loop. He needs you to treat him the same way every time you're together. This submission is long, but I'd like some advice please : by: Anonymous I'm a pisces woman with a scorpio friend who confuses the hell out of me. I can remember the first time I ever saw him and it was so unreal, I was drawn to him like a magnet.
There was just something there that made me want to get to know him more. I even remember before we formally met, we crossed paths and the way we had looked at each other literally gave me cold chills.
Our eyes just lingered and kept locked onto each others. A few weeks passed and from a mutual friend of ours we met. I just remember ever since we had become friends we always hung out and were around each other constantly.
It just worked and we both felt comfortable being around one another. As the weeks passed our friendship progressed and he started to ask me questions about any past relationships i'd had, if I was "talking" to anyone and so forth. Of course me being all shy and quiet I didn't really say much.
During one of our breaks from university, out of the 7 days we had off we hung out 5 of the days. He had called and texted me all during the break and I eventually ended up staying over at his house multiple times throughout the break.
Nothing physical ever happened, it was just us enjoying each others company. All the times that we ever hung out I always felt that he was interested in me.
He would flirt and I figure if he's comfortable enough to invite me to stay at his place than he must have somewhat of an interest. But I always played it cool, never wanting to be vulnerable and really show my true feelings because I didn't want to lose what we already had.
Well one particular evening he and i went to a party with a bunch of our friends. We both got pretty drunk and during the party I had told him I'd never really been in a serious relationship before.
At the time I had no recollection of this ever being said until the next day when he told me what info I had willingly shared with him. I know this is long, but bare with me please. I'm in need of some advice.
So anyways we are walking back from the party to go back to the dorms and he walks beside me and links arms with me. Then he tells me he's going to sleep with me tonight. But just straight up sleeping, he didn't mean sex. So we get back to my room and we listened to music for awhile and then I decide to just lay in my bed.
I was about to pass out and then he wraps his arms around me and is just laying there for a few minutes. While we were laying there with the music going on in the background, I said to him that he was really warm and within about 10 seconds he gets up and goes back to the music playing on my computer. I found it odd, but we were intoxicated so I didn't make much of it. Well then he decides that he's tired and wants to sleep so he gets in my bed with me and is just laying there, one arm draped over my waist.
I felt kinda hot so I went to turn on my fan and reached my hand towards it. Well I don't really know why he did this but I guess he thought I was reaching for his hand and he went out and grabbed my hand a bit. I eventually gave up on the damn fan and just left my hand barely gracing his.
So anyway, I'll cut to the chase. He has moved to Florida about two months ago to go live with his mom. He had to leave school so thats why he's gone. One week before he left I decided that I needed to tell him how I felt about him because it was just frustrating having to keep all my feelings to myself for so long. I tell him over text message this " Look I have feelings for you and I would appreciate it if you wouldn't call me cute and whatnot if you don't really mean it, I just don't want to get hurt.
When did I call you cute? I'm sorry if I upset you : ". I forget what I had sent him or maybe I didn't reply. I honestly can't remember, but he ended up asking if I was ok and if he could call me. I told him that I was ok and that I didn't have any minutes left on my phone, which I didn't. So then I asked him later on in the night if I could call him and so I called him using someone else's phone of course. I call him and he's at a friends house watching a movie.
So I tell him that I'll just call him later because it just isn't the right time to talk to him while he's busy or whatever. And he said "No just talk to me now" and I was very adamant about just waiting until the next day or whatever. Then I just rambled and said how frustrating all of this was. Then he wanted to know why and wanted me to elaborate more, but I told him that I would just call him tomorrow. So it's about pm the next day and I call him and ask him why he did and said certain things.
All I got out of him after everything I brought up was dead silence for about 20 seconds followed by either an "I don't know" or him trying to change the subject. I decided I'd had enough because the conversation wasn't going anywhere. He got angry and irritated and said that "awkward" was just a word used for essentially weak, stupid, self conscious people but said that he didn't think of me that way, just others.
Not applying it to me or whatever, so the night before he leaves he invited me over to his house. I hadn't even noticed that it happened to be Valentine's Day, but unfortunately it was. So I get to his house and his parents are there and I had met them several times beforehand and according him he says they really like me. His dad puts in this old home video of him and it was quite humorous watching, but eventually he left us to ourselves.
We just spent the evening hanging out as usual and listening to music, talking, etc. I gave him a hug before I walked out the door and he just let out this deep sigh when he hugged me and I just felt really bad because he had told me previously how much he was really going to miss me.
I left and he stood by the door as I got into my car and drove back to school. When he was gone at first, we texted each other everyday and he would tell me how much he wished he were still up there and that he missed me. Eventually I got sick and tired of being the one to innitiate any kind of conversation and thought to myself that I should just stop talking to him and finally have some control in this situation.
We haven't spoken in almost a month now. I mean I feel better about it because I don't have the uncertainity of his feelings about me lingering over my head. He never even has bothered to own up to anything. He never said that he didn't like me nor did he say that he did.
Which left me hanging and it made me so frustrated once again. So as the weeks have gone by and we haven't talked to each other it's just so bittersweet. I miss talking to him and everything, but there is a weight lifted off my shoulders. I don't think about him nearly as much, but I still care about him deeply. I just don't know what to do. Maybe not speak to him until I'm ready? Just cut off all ties now that he's so far away? I don't know. I'd just like some feedback or something For the sag girl who wrote "All girls go for scorpios" by: Anonymous heeeeey!!!
A week went by before I actually talked to him. The first week we hung out,and even had sex once. I'd just gotten out of a relationship so hangin out was cool with me, never cared if he called or not. We continued hanging out, he then began confiding in me, now we're seeing each other like every other day. We even worked together for awhile. I always knew I wasn't the only one he dealt with, it was obvious. However, he always made me feel nervous and excited to see him, simply cause we would spend hours together.
My friend said that he really liked me, but he never expressed it. There were times where he would even get jealous around other males. Then he got weird, sometimes I would'nt hear from for days. Suddenly, he'd call me all excited and hang out with me like all day, sex and all. A yeat later, he gets a girl pregnant, and I go back to my ex.
My ex and I break up again. Here comes Mr. Scorpio,in my world again only more intense, we pick up where we left off. Year three he has another baby same girl, we're still spending time and having sex together. Now I realize I love him,yet we only act like friends, but never apart. He stares at me as though he Loves me too, his friends even think so. After dealing with his mind games,I go back to my ex who really loves me,I tell Scorpio this, he gets upset and walks away.
He always kept intouch via phone,even still, I cant get rid of him. So,I lie to him that I broke up with my BF to get his reaction,and immediately he wants in.
He's in my mind everyday,I cant seem to get rid of him, and I still dont how he truly feels. Pisceans are very sensitive and Scorpions can be dangerous creatures.
I have a Scorpion shag buddy - we have been hanging out intensely for a few weeks and after he did some ridiculous 'test' on me over the weekend I completely saw red and lost my temper with it. Which is rare for a Taurus, but hey, Scorpio and Taurus together are very intense.
I had a go at him and we sorted it out and I am glad. He actually really appreciated me being honest, and I know that was genuine. He isn't booby trapping my house at the moment, LOL! He appreciates honesty though and I think they all do I think the Scorpio girl who posted giggling to herself :D is right, sometimes they are being mean but sometimes they are also scared of their own heart and seeing how you feel. I think the best move is to be honest with them. You also need to lay down the law about what you will accept in a relationship or a lover with them You need to be very careful as you can't be crying in the corner and being wounded as you have to bear in mind Scorpions are VERY full on people.
We hit it off right away saw each other all the time but i want commitment and he wouldn't commit so i did what a leo will do stayed around but messed around to when he caught me red handed in bed with another ran he destroyed me found the first person he could to say he was commited to and wanted to marry. That didnt last cause he is mine and we stayed together for a few more years me ready for commitment agian confronted him he told me he'd never be commited to me so i walked away and married the first man i could.
Now 15 years later from our first year i am still married but with my scorpio in a relationship for the last 2 years i finaly am getting the i love yous and have never loved him more we were made for each other. The piont of all this is that i have been to hell and back for him and cant live without him.
Upon our meeting we engaged in some pretty indepth conversations about relationships. We seemed to have so much in common. Take the secretive side of you, for instance. You're trying to protect your heart and want to make sure the person you're dating is just as into you as you are with them. But this game you play where you get to become the withholding partner is tiring.
If you want to strengthen that bond, you need to let yourself get vulnerable and honest, not secretive and closed-off. Sagittarius, your relationships must be learning experiences for you and constant adventures.
If you don't feel like you're growing as a person, you're probably not going to stick around very long. That said, you do love finding that one person who really makes you feel like they're you're other half, but that still doesn't really stop you from playing mind games, sometimes even without your partner's knowledge of what you're really doing.
Your biggest fear in a relationship is feeling like you're possessed by someone not a demon, your partner , or restricted. Of course, serious relationships can make you freak out a bit, and you might start feeling this way even when your partner isn't restricting you. You believe that sleeping with someone new is the best way to get over someone old, so it's not uncommon for you to clock out early in a relationship for that exact reason — that you'll find someone else — rather than working it out when these feelings of claustrophobia set in.
Pisces, you have a lot of love to give, and your partner knows that. And you would do just about anything in your relationship just to make your partner see how much you care about them.
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